The problem isn't that other people sometimes come first. The problem is when you automatically come last.
Do you notice other people’s moods, worry about disappointing them, or feel guilty when you say no?
You may have learned very early to pay close attention to other people: their moods, needs, disappointment and approval.
Somewhere along the way putting yourself last began to feel normal.
You don't have to choose between yourself and the people you love.
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About the Author, Diane Metcalf: Hi there! I'd like you to know that I’m a survivor of a narcissistic mother and later, intimate partner violence. These experiences were painful but transformative, bringing me to where I am today: engaged in helping others find clarity, empowerment, and peace after emotional trauma. They shaped how I show up in the world: with heart, knowledge, and a deep respect for the strength it takes to heal.
Readers have very kindly described me as a “passionate advocate and a comforting guide” for those facing the challenges of narcissistic abuse, family dysfunction, and toxic relationships. Everything I do is rooted in a deep desire to support others on their healing journey.
I’m truly honored to connect with you and look forward to walking beside you on your journey.
-Diane Metcalf